Marriage is a legal
institution between two people to become husband and wife. Basically, It's a
celebration of moments, love and togetherness. However, there must have been a
lot of hurdles crossed before this eventually comes to play and this piece of
writing has been put together to point at the religion aspect of it and will
like you all to sit back and relax, strap your sit belts and journey with me as
we look at the possibilities of the coming together of a christian brother and
a Muslim sister, who are both dedicated to their respective religion to become
husband and wife.
To kick start this engine, I
will like us to know that no matter how hard we try to run away from the truth,
the fact still remains that Christians and Muslims are one even though we have
our different beliefs and ways of doing things and I'll keep sticking it out to
you all because we all were created by the same God and of a common goal,
regardless. Allah is God and so is Yisa, Jesus so why the favoritism? The
same way the Muslims bow their heads in prayers is the same way the celestial
churches do and what if there's a difference in how the protestants or even the Christians and Muslims in general go about serving their creator, the fact
still remains that we all acknowledge and serve one special God and that I
believe supersede all.
It is just sad how we all
tend to discriminate against one another and to this effect, the coming
together of a Muslim and a Christian to live happily under one roof may seem
quite difficult to achieve but definitely not impossible. However, I've
seen a lot of Muslim sisters giving up their religious background and beliefs
to become one with a christian brother, embracing his religion and dedicating
her whole life to what it stands for, all in the name of love but I've
not seen or heard of a christian brother giving up all of that to be joined
with a Muslim sister to practice Islam and even though I will like to talk more
on that but I guess that is a topic for another day.
Apparently, just as there are
people who have dedicated their entire life to the practice of Christianity and
are worthy of been called Christians, so are there people who are just ordinary
church goers and lip coated heaven worshipers and I'm afraid this same
scenario plays out in our mosques too, but I'm not here to point fingers to
that regard, after all the gospel didn't say you 'MUST' serve Jesus or Mohammed
depending on what direction you're looking from, it only says you'll be saved
through him 'IF' you do, it's a matter of choice, really.
There are different levels of
dedication regarding our religious race on earth as I hurriedly pointed out in
the last paragraph and would have loved to take a minute or two to quickly
straighten that out because with God, it's either you're hot or cold, there's
no place within but then of course as I already said, that's a topic for
another day because I'm here to talk about two dedicated individuals, who
understands the concepts and have chosen to stay hot, although on a different
religious platform and we would be looking at the possibilities of them coming
together against all odds to be joined as one in holy matrimony.
Well, it seems like a pretty
hard task to achieve considering the fact that they are both dedicated
worshipers of their various religion but I know it's not impossible as
anything is possible with love and one just needs to keep his fingers crossed
and allow the mystery unravel itself. You know, love conquers all and it's
accomplish-able but on a condition that speaks volume and that is the measure
of love they share. Only true love can withstand all the drama that comes with
it, otherwise they will soon fade away like a pair of colored shirt washed
with bleach and memories of them tossed into the thin air and blown away to be
seen no more.
Only love can stand the true
test of time, it never gives up. If you have it, you have everything. It's
the only thing that suspends physical laws and so I like to call love a
miracle. Love is divine and cannot be underestimated. Initially, there will be
argument and misunderstandings that will lead to those long and exhausting
fights that will at some point almost kill the wonderful thing they thought
they had but if what they share is true and sincere, they would overcome and
stand strong against all odds.
Love cannot be broken no
matter how hard they try, it's like destiny, it can only be delayed and even if
separated, they soon find a way back to each other's
arms. I like to call it the biggest test of all time because love always wins,
it never goes wrong. Nonetheless, I know it is not going to be an easy fight
for them to stay un-separated because we must remember that they aren't
the only ones involved in this, the both parent of the aspiring couple alone is
enough to impose a lasting threat on their friendship, talk more of their
friends, loved ones, counsel from spiritual leaders and family as a whole.
Moreover, let's not forget
conflicts of opinion stage-managed by the significance of the difference in
religious background also staring at them deep in the eye and the basic truth
is that when you put all these into consideration, some would rather just save
themselves from the drama than dive into that ocean. Notwithstanding, true love
faces that turbulent sea, not minding the strong current they have to swim in
and will make it to the shore eventually. Love is simply the beauty of life and
with it, anything I repeat is possible. There are no restrictions in love, no
limitations and no boundaries, it conquers all. I've
seen the blind get married to a beauty queen and also a relationship
maintaining its standard, its status, not loosing the love they shared despite
one of them been involved in a very fertile accident that took both legs.
Love is a beautiful thing,
and like I said earlier, if you have it, you have everything. For it suffereth
long, and is kind; Love envieth not; Love Vaunteth not itself, is not puffed
up. It doth not behave itself unseemly. Seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked,
thinketh no evil. Rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in truth; Beareth
all things, believe all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things. With
love, anything is possible and religion I say enthusiastically is not much of a
barrier if the two people involved share a sincere and true feeling. No doubt,
it will not be an easy sail but eventually, love always win.
Kay Magnate
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